Sunday, June 29, 2014

Home Again...

The Road Trip ended, and so did the national convention in Oklahoma City--we're back in Alabama, which is home not only for our children, but also for most of our extended family who moved to Alabama over our nearly 13 years of ministry in this state.

The kids have been soaking up love in Decatur, Alabama - reconnecting with friends (especially Alexis) and family, including cousins they had not yet met (born during our absence).

Today, June 29, is our first time to share again with the 6th Avenue congregation as a family.  Can you go home again?

It is hard to prepare for this Sunday, maybe harder than any preparation I have made before.  So much emotion was experienced last week in Oklahoma City for me, and to contemplate stepping back into a sanctuary and in a fellowship with whom we labored and prayed and cried and dreamed--well, that's even more emotion.  I am not sure what I will experience as I hug and greet and reminisce with this faith family.  The story of our call and the work we do now, as well as that of Zach & Audrey Langford and several others, is tightly wound around the testimony of this group who learned to "Touch the World for Christ" by embracing the three godly requirements of Micah 6:8 that we summarized as "serve love pray."

We will share about the ministry to which we are engaged now--but we will also share about the past and how that has birthed a present that none of us could have fully imagined back in 2003.  One special song in our worship experience during those years was "God of Justice" by Tim Hughes, which includes in the 2nd verse the elements of Micah 6:8.



In the next couple weeks, we will be with my parents and family south of Birmingham.  On Sunday, July 6, we will be with the Riverchase Community Church, whom we served prior to 6th Avenue, and which has produced such great young leaders as Abby Smith Torgeson (formerly serving the Church of God in Colombia), and Joshua Weiger (recently commissioned with his wife Audrey to serve with us in Three Worlds).  Similarly, that will be an emotional visit--we are deeply grateful for the positive relationships that exist in both of these congregations whom we served before this current adventure.  We are blessed by each who support us in regular prayer and giving, encouragement and interest in the work of the Lord in the Middle East.

No matter where we go and what we do, we can never forget those who partnered with us and continue in ministry in places that will forever remain dear to our hearts.  As we go back into these fellowships, there will be faces missing, dear friends who have moved on themselves to other congregations or communities--and there are dear saints who have gone on to be with the Lord.  At 6th Avenue today, I will place a large magnolia bloom on the organ in memory of one of our biggest challengers and cheerleaders, Ms Jane Bradford, who passed away earlier this year; we're all teary at the thought of that empty organ bench today.  At RCC, we will miss Sister Peggy Rose, who wonderfully supported us and the youth ministry at RCC in our time there.  While we have these moments of homecoming, they will be deeply missed and we look forward to the greater homecoming in which we will see them again, whole and joyful.

We are richly blessed by love and relationships with these whom we will share a few moments today and in the weeks ahead.  Thank you Lord for such memories and the bonds of love that continue to bind us together.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Why OKC?

Personal thoughts heading into a pivotal convention for the Church of God (Reformation Movement) (Anderson, Indiana)

The History (as I know it, surely to be criticized by ChoG Historians)
Annually, the ChoG "tribe" of the evangelical Christian community would gather for what was once known as "international campmeeting", & more recently as the North American Convention, or NAC. Though the movement began in other parts of the country (key meetings & moments taking place in West Virginia, Ohio, Michigan, etc), the annual meeting found a home when the printing press (Gospel Trumpet Company) and Bible College were established in Anderson, Indiana.  This young "reformation movement," (which sought to unify the various denominations under a Kingdom banner of "Church of God," united in faith and purified as the expectant Bride of Christ by the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit), had the notion that the return of Christ was soon.  So, early, no plans for establishing buildings and organization were in place--only the urgent appeal to be saved, be holy, and be united--even preaching a message to "come out" from the various denominations whose platforms hosted their appeal.  Creative, current and sacrificial efforts were employed to draw the masses to hear these appeals--an example is the riverboat known as "the Floating Bethel" that used a contemporary (at the time) Gospel choir to call along the banks of the Ohio River the opportunities to hear this urgent message.  Missionaries went out using literature from the printing press to spread the message of salvation, holiness, & unity--pictures of small wagons that doubled as homes (early RV's) and book-mobiles have been seen in England and other countries.

As time wore on, the immediate return of Christ gave way to a desire to provide regular worship communities among those who were "called out" and had "seen the Church".  The ChoG enjoyed the golden age of Christianity in the USA during the early part of the 20th century, continuing to grow, establish churches and send out missionaries.  And, an effort to use new methods continued; for example, the establishment of the Christian Brotherhood Hour, a weekly radio program, and it's original speaker, Dale Oldham, are credited with the birth of the modern radio program (as I have heard) by the radio broadcaster's hall of fame.

Throughout the years, the annual Campmeeting continued to grow, drawing thousands to hear the "great pastors" of the movement.  The annual pilgrimage to the community of Anderson, Indiana was often likened to the Muslims making their way to Mecca.  The ChoG even ventured into a feat of engineering marvel--creating (at the time) the largest non-internally supported domed auditorium in the world, Warner Auditorium--actually a world record at one time.  My father was a boy at the time of this undertaking and our family has pictures of the large mound of dirt that was carefully smoothed, then layered with coats of concrete, then lifted by dozens of jacks around the enormous dome as brick support walls were slowly, carefully constructed around it's base.

This was the pinnacle of the golden age of the ChoG: printing, broadcasting, engineering, educating in several institutions, established in 50 states, establishing itself worldwide, etc.  I grew up in this era and thought the ChoG was huge--and to some degree, it was.  My parents became pastors, continuing in the footsteps of my grandparents--each serving congregations with heritage and hope--as well as serving internationally.

I am the product of several generations of pastors, discipled through an amazing Christian Education program at one of the leading Midwestern congregations, and mentored by some of the great, modern leaders in the movement.  I, along with my wife, graduated from Anderson University and have served three ChoG congregations and their state ministries with (dare I say) distinction.  We love the ChoG, it's people, it's heritage, it's message and it's potential.  We are committed to serve the Kingdom through the ChoG so long as it sticks to these ideals--and have jumped off the high dive into the Middle East with our family to do so at a greater level of Kingdom service than we ever imagined.

But...

Somewhere, probably at multiple times and around multiple decisions, the ChoG Reformation Movement ceased being a movement and became a reminiscent monument.  It was less about the message and more about the meeting; urgency gave way to complacency; sacrificing gave way to surviving; spreading the message became about attracting rather than going; cutting edge creativity worried about the cost or keeping the congregants happy; and what began in opposition to denomination became one itself.

Okay, that's moved from history to my perspective and commentary--but hey, it's my blog and you don't have to read any further if you don't want to do so ;)

So What's Happening Now...
Recently, preparing for a transition from General Director Ron Duncan to someone new, the ChoG Ministries office and council sought a consultation on the movement.  It wasn't good.  The direction of the movement was down: in attendance, in relevance, in assets/finances, in unity, even in integrity.  The only positive factor was an unprecedented level of desire to get back up.  

Now, before I go on, let me just say I have met, conversed with, and even collaborated (through vision conferences) with Ron Duncan on occasions during his tenure.  I know some of my peers didn't like his leadership, but to be fair, I think he inherited a behemoth of an organization that was all over the place and I believe that he, at the very least, ordered the mess.  I have nothing but respect for those like him who led at a difficult time.

Now, back to the matter at hand, the ChoG appointed/ratified in the last year a new general director, Pastor Jim Lyon.  He had previously led the Madison Park (formerly the North Anderson) ChoG, and has been the "voice of the ChoG" through the weekly, continuing broadcast of CBH (which got rebranded as Christians Broadcasting Hope).  His leadership in the last year has sparked debate, potentially even division, and we're all headed to OKC to work through this.  So, let me write some more about Jim, the move to OKC, and the future.


Jim Lyon, General Director
Full Disclosure: we know Jim pretty well.  I met him on my and his first night in Anderson; he extended an open door policy for me as a ministry student that I took advantage of, seeking his council, experience and friendship.  During those college years, Jim baptized me at my request in a Wednesday night Bible Study at North Anderson.  He also officiated our wedding 20 years ago.  When we were appointed by ChoG to join the Europe &. Middle East ministries, he committed support from Madison Park to get us started.  When our fund-raising was slow among the east where all our relationships and experience had been, he called me to find out who I knew out west, and then personally called and emailed a dozen pastors urging them to meet with me to hear the vision--several of these confessed that they would not have talked to me otherwise--several of the group are among our supporters today.

So, we know Jim, like Jim, are indebted to Jim, and respect him highly.

But...
People have been asking if he is a strong enough leader or the right leader for this task and moment in time.  I do not know; I am not sure that he has the leadership capacity to pull off this enormous, needed change in the movement.  That said, I don't know anyone else that really does either.  But, I believe in a God who empowers the one willing to face the giant (task). We can be like Saul that criticizes the tools or strategy, or even like David's brother who criticizes the motives, but unless you were willing to put you and your family's ministry on the line and step up in this role, I think you need to pray up instead of put down.  Seriously.  

Rather than criticize him, maybe we could do a better job of encouraging him and asking the Holy Spirit to increase his wisdom and bring favor through this difficult process.


The Move to OKC
Full Disclosure: I love Anderson (I'm not a fan of OK); I was born in Anderson, lived and grew up nearby, went to school there, and through all my years of moving around, coming back each summer was a homecoming.

I loved the "Campmeeting experience", but honestly, what I'll miss most about being in Anderson (what my kids lament) is getting our traditional doughnut at the same counter where I used to sit with my grandfather as a young boy.  Campmeeting had become an event where the minors were more important than the major--General Assembly meetings were a joke and poorly attended at best, giving way to conferences or extended lunch conversations with old friends.  

There are a lot of people upset, even irate, at the cost of the convention.  They think/say that the convention was "free" in Anderson.  Really? Nothing is free--ever--it costs someone, somewhere.  There are only free-loaders.  Some of the pastors complaining about cost will spend more on going to another church growth or leadership conference; or, they have no problem telling their youth group to raise the money for their conventions.  For decades, ChoG Ministries have been swallowing this cost--cost that could have supported missions, disaster relief, pastor retirement, college scholarships, etc.

I don't know if the right process was followed, nor if the right people were consulted.  A lot of complaints have been written/posted about under what authority were so many drastic changes made (change of venue, change of format, change of tradition, change from no children or youth programs, ...).  But this is an instance of missing the forest for the trees--this is NOT a typical, normal, traditional NAC.  This is an intervention--a family meeting at a crisis moment.  In my opinion (again, it's my blog), it's time to strip away all the extra distractions, all the comforts of our routines, and get the largest possible General Assembly to meet in a neutral location.  I'm sure attendance will be down at this NAC, but the GA meeting will be the largest in years--AND that's the point, the focal point of the whole meeting.

(I was recently asked, then why change the logos and all the other things going into this.  I admit, I don't like the new logo--I think it's too busy and I like simple--but what I like is that it puts the cross back central in the representation of who we are.  For all the complaining of the "lost meaning" of the old 3-part flame logo, there is no realization that in the drive to be the "holiness and unity" church, we lost the 1st, primary part of that flame: salvation. Without salvation, we don't have holiness and unity.  We should never forget that the Pharisees attempted to bring unity to God's people by emphasizing righteousness.  We must get grace & gospel back front and center in this movement.  I live in a part of the world where religious, legal devotion is at it's peak--but there is no grace--and that part of the world is dark, lifeless, petty, and back-stabbing.  I don't like the logo-but I want the cross front and center because without Grace, the rest is impossible.)


The Future...
I have high hopes for the future.  I don't want to labor away in a struggling enterprise, and I don't think anyone in the ChoG "tribe" wants to offer anything less than the best possible service for the Kingdom.  I want to live for my Savior out on the ragged edge of costly obedience to vision and calls bigger than myself; I want to take on the giants and cross the seas; I want to see history changed and eternities redeemed.

None of this happens without risk, and risk is what will keep some from taking the leap.  I wish I could go into this convention thinking it's gonna be a "kum ba ya" moment; but experience tells me some will walk away.  That doesn't make one group right and the other wrong.  It's just the way it is.  I'll be listening to the voice of the Spirit of God, the one that invites me into greater levels of risk, obedience, and sacrifice--the invitation that leads me to become a better representation of Jesus--within ChoG, or somewhere else...

"Come, Lord Jesus!
The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all. Amen."
(Revelation 22:20b, 21)


Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #6

Review of June 10...
I left Fresno where temperatures in that desert oasis were over 105* - I wake up in LA this morning, walking out in shorts & a t-shirt, to 57* and only an expected high of 68* under cloudy skies! Totally unexpected!

(The drive by the way, with the Sierra Nevada'a on the left, approaching then going over the Coastal Range at the "Grapevine", was simply beautiful.)

Three Worlds & then some in the hotel lobby this morning--I walked into a couple speaking French; French citizens on holiday here.  I got my second cup of coffee from a German man visiting here with his family on a west coast & Grand Canyon adventure; he had been to Egypt twice so we had a good little conversation.  We were all surrounded by some Hindu statues representing the faith of the hotel owners. And two Hispanic workers came in as the French couple left, one of whom spoke limited English.  It's an increasingly "glocal" world--are you ready to engage the nations today wherever you are?

Last night, I got to meet Pastor Brent's family and was able to have dinner with he and his wife.  Two great ChoGgers who moved from the predictable confines of the Midwest to lead a little church in the heart of Los Angeles.  Such great hearts for the Kingdom and for people--I thoroughly loved hearing about their church, ministry, & journey--this is a church and family who would find great connection to our former ministry at 6th Avenue in Decatur, Alabama.

Today, I will get to tour around with them a bit, taking in the sights like the world famous Randy's Doughnuts (think "Iron Man")--can't wait--but first, I need some warmer clothes!  Then, tonight it will be my sincere honor to share about the ministry of 3W/Middle East - as well as our gratitude - with the Culver City Church of God.

Now for the songs of the day...

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are NOT necessarily the views, opinions, antics or behavior of the Oldham Family,
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or any other related Christian or organization;
it's merely a song, on a blog post, 
so read the rest of the post to find out what strange meaning Ken is drawing from it. :)

and now..., continuing with the 2014 Playlist...

Today's Playlist is a Two for one, because I've got two things going on in my mind/heart today.  First of all, Keli and the kids are traveling and en route to the USA for the first time in 2.5 years!  I pray not only for their safety but also for their peace of mind in the reverse culture shock that they may experience with family and in their hometown.  For them, the song "Safe and Sound" by the band Capital Cities is playing in my heart...


After yesterdays serious tone, and my concern for the family traveling, I need some upbeat and fun tune to lighten the moos.  This song fits the bill as it is fun and off the wall.  I don't know anything about these guys or this crazy tune, but it has a line "I wake up to the city of Angels..." and that was enough for me to introduce you to Fitz and The Tantrums and "The Walker"...



I like the themes of "marching to the beat of my own drum", which is prevalent within this song.  Conformity is a trap that robs us of the unique design and gifts of the Father in our lives.  How are you walking uniquely with the Lord, counter culturally today??

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #5

Review of June 9...
Well there's not much to report on Monday, June 9 because I took the time to rest.  My body was shutting down on Sunday night June 8 and I had one of the most complete nights of rest that I can remember.  I then went on to attempt to get my iPhone working in the US, but my "unlocked" phone has some sort of block on it from the Egyptian service provider, an issue I cannot resolve until I get back to Egypt--so, I had to get a disposable phone.  I miss the ability for GPS right now while I'm driving around--so, this is a throwback road trip as I try to get my directions and follow a piece of paper from place to place.  Just glad to have a phone as I begin the longer legs of this road trip.  Speaking of which, let's get back to the playlist...

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or those same represented within their song <insert song title here>
or of their record label, affiliates, or any other fan base
are NOT necessarily the views, opinions, antics or behavior of the Oldham Family,
Three Worlds, Church of God Ministries, Church of God doctrine,
or any other related Christian or organization;
it's merely a song, on a blog post, 
so read the rest of the post to find out what strange meaning Ken is drawing from it. :)

and now..., continuing with the 2014 Playlist...

Today, I'm heading south from Fresno to Los Angeles.  I've never traveled this route, nor visited the Culver City Church of God before, so this is all brand new.

On the way I made a detour to see an important friend, a mentor who was instrumental in shaping a lot of my life.  I haven't seen him in years and years, and in that time, he has experienced some personal lows and personal tragedy leading to a loss of favor and respect in the ministry community.  

I don't know what happened, how, or what steps were taken to reconcile.  All I know is that he and his wife were divorced--a pain that I feel deeply because they are both mentors and were like spiritual parents to me, heavily investing time, patience, teaching, and resources into our lives and development.  I cannot tell my story without mentioning their names, yet mentioning their names now leads to more questions--questions for which I do not have answers.

I did not make the detour this morning to get those answers.  He nor she owe me anything.  I owe them everything and I will defend each for as long as I live because I guarantee I would not be who I am, or where I am without their influence and sacrifice for me.  I went to tell him, "thank you."  

It was one of the most emotional moments of my life, sharing with him what belief and training in a scrawny, shy, uncertain, and awkward little kid has done and is doing in the lives of those whom we have invested and loved and served.  In turn, he shared about the amazing ministry he is doing now and the challenges of being home to love and serve his parents who are in the last chapters of their lives.  It was time well spent for both of us.

The superstar band Coldplay's frontman Chris Martin has had a very public fallout with his wife, actress Gwyneth Paltrow.  From that pain and loss, the band encouraged some soul searching and to use that emotion and experience in creating the art of their latest album "Ghost Stories"--each track reveals the deep sense of sadness and loss experienced by Chris Martin, and the more you listen the more you think this is either the most romantic overture, or the saddest thing you've ever heard.  The hit single "Magic" recounts the loss but also the underlying hope that even what was sawn in two could come back together.


Sometimes, there's no going back from the consequences of our actions; but I do believe in Grace and a God who not only provided that at great cost to Himself, but also a God who powerfully, wonderfully restores.  

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #18

Review June 22...
Had a great day at Sunset Park ChoG with Pastor Randy Kerr...

...and a great night at Rainier Community with Pastoe Steve & Rhonda (who are now all the more inspirational as they battle his brain tumor)...

...and the best part is that I get to bring the family back to Oregon to finish the summer!  So blessed to have such support from this part of the country.

Well, today the road trip playlist ends--the traveling won't be over--but this series was to keep me going till I am reunited with Keli, which will happen tonight, and with the kids, which will happen by the end of the week.  So today's playlist song is for Keli...

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The views, opinions, antics, and behavior of <insert artist name here>
or those same represented within their song <insert song title here>
or of their record label, affiliates, or any other fan base
are NOT necessarily the views, opinions, antics or behavior of the Oldham Family,
Three Worlds, Church of God Ministries, Church of God doctrine,
or any other related Christian or organization;
it's merely a song, on a blog post, 
so read the rest of the post to find out what strange meaning Ken is drawing from it. :)

and now..., continuing with the 2014 Playlist...

Today--after 18 days--I get to see my wonderful wife, my best friend, my partner in ministry.  I am so blessed to know her and share life with her.  I would not be on this journey without her, because I would be incomplete, and would not have ever been able to offer all that I have without her influence, patience, support, and even correction.  She's my sounding board, my filter, my teleprompter, my extra eyes & ears, but most of all, my heart--she helps me to stop and feel where I would have rushed on with only thoughts.  

I never imagined that I would ever get married--don't know if that's a pitiful self-concept or teen angst/doom--but it seemed too wonderful for me to comprehend, and too complicated for me to handle.  I'm not a perfect husband, and far from a perfect father, but I know we've been pretty perfect together--and I'm so glad I get to continue on this journey together.

So this one's for Keli...

(James Blunt, "Bonfire Heart")

Next on the blog: I will update on churches and events in which we participate; it won't be everyday, but I'm sure I'll be tweeting @ok2serve and it will show up on the Facebook "Oldham ThreeWorlds".  I will post tomorrow as I head to Oklahoma City today to participate in a monumental North American Convention of the Church of God.  We all have our thoughts & opinions heading into this, and I will share mine tomorrow...

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #17

Review of June 21...
The morning began with a conversation with Keli; she and the kids were scheduled to leave yesterday to go see her grandmother in Tennessee.  Her health and mind had been failing lately, but the doctor had called early in the morning hours to say that her fever was rosin and her breathing slowing.  Keli's dad, who as a great son had been traveling to be near her every 10 days, left early to be by her side.  Keli I needed to talk about options as we are scheduled to be in several places, and yet needing to come back to one place.

Afterwards, I spent some time thinking and praying in the Kerr's home, from the perch of the spectacular view over the Columbia River valley and mountains in the distance.  Not a more peaceful, beautiful view from which to contemplate life and the everlasting.

Pastor Randy and I set out for a Starbucks (gotta love the northwest) and our hike at Beacon Rock in the Columbia River valley gorge.  Here's some pics of this beautiful experience:




Keli and I talked again and her granny was doing better; stable. Thank you for the prayers for their family; please continue to pray for peace and comfort as the waiting continues.

This morning I prepare to preach at Sunset Park and share with them about the ministries in which they have been investing.  Sunday afternoon, I will move toward neighboring Rainier where I will have the opportunity to share with the congregation led by Pastor Steve & Rhonda Stecker.  I'm looking forward to that visit with a wonderful couple, and looking forward to be encouraged by Steve's faith that has been challenged and growing as he battles recovery from a brain tumor.  I wish I could say that I will encourage him, but I'm sure it will be he other way around!

Meanwhile, across the country, Keli and the kids go to share at Rainbow City Community Church outside of Gadsden, Alabama.  This congregation, small in number, has been huge in love and financial support for us, easpecially in the last year.  We are thankful for Pastor Eill Hughes and RCCC doing so much.  After  Keli shares, it's off to the airport so she can fly over to OKC to be ready for the start of the national convention. (I'll leave Portland Monday morning).

So, it's Sunday, and I continue the road trip playlist with another of our favorite worship songs...

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or those same represented within their song <insert song title here>
or of their record label, affiliates, or any other fan base
are NOT necessarily the views, opinions, antics or behavior of the Oldham Family,
Three Worlds, Church of God Ministries, Church of God doctrine,
or any other related Christian or organization;
it's merely a song, on a blog post, 
so read the rest of the post to find out what strange meaning Ken is drawing from it. :)

and now..., continuing with the 2014 Playlist...

This one has been a favorite for the last couple years.  "Mighty to Save" has been led/sung by many different groups and is a part of many different church worship services around the world; for me, it hooks me right from the opening phrase...


"Everyone needs compassion, a love that's never failing, let mercy fall on me...the Hope of Nations" - I believe that.  I believe that everyone needs compassion and I've not seen the lasting effect of compassion like that offered through Jesus Christ.  I admit that many, even in the name of Jesus, often fail at offering it as purely and sincerely as we should--but when we get it right, it is not only life-changing (for the recipient and the giver), but it's also world changing, and history changing.  We do what we do because we have experienced such mercy--and we try to offer mercy as the vehicle of this life-giving hope--and we further seek to teach, equip, and inspire mercy in those we are privileged to lead and serve.  

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #16

Review of June 20...
I had a good lunch with the Oregon/SW Washington Missions Commission.  This group is creating unity among the churches in their approach and vision for mission in their local communities and around the world.  They not only seek to support the churches, but also seek to support, encourage, and care for those serving internationally.  It is such a joy to know them, share with them, and receive their care.  


I then traveled to St Helens, Oregon and began sharing with Pastor Randy Kerr of the Sunset Park ChoG.  We plan to take a hike this morning up Beacon Rock along the Columbia River where we can get some exercise, as well as a better view of the beautiful valley and the mountains in the distance.  So the road trip today will be by foot on a trail, not by car on a road--but there's still a song...

Disclaimer: 
The views, opinions, antics, and behavior of <insert artist name here>
or those same represented within their song <insert song title here>
or of their record label, affiliates, or any other fan base
are NOT necessarily the views, opinions, antics or behavior of the Oldham Family,
Three Worlds, Church of God Ministries, Church of God doctrine,
or any other related Christian or organization;
it's merely a song, on a blog post, 
so read the rest of the post to find out what strange meaning Ken is drawing from it. :)

and now..., continuing with the 2014 Playlist...

I falsely assumed that the community if St Helens would be near the mountain/volcano St. Helens--but that peak is in Washington, clearly in view from th Oregon side of the River, but many miles in the distance.  (Similiarly, I will be in the community of Rainier, Oregon on Sunday evening, but Mt Rainier is nearer to Seattle.)

When I was a kid growing up in the middle of Nowhere, Indiana, I remember hearing about Mt. St. Helens blowing it's top and covering the surrounding communities with ash.  It really was hard for me as kid on the flat prairies to comprehend mountains, let alone one exploding; during that time we learned a lot about volcanoes and mountains and history of various natural events like that.  Of course, we learned about Pompeii, the ancient Italian city that was buried suddenly below layers of ash.

"Pompeii" is also a song with a driving beat to which we have really enjoyed listening lately.  Up and coming band Bastille has several interesting songs that we have enjoyed...

The lyrics include...
We were caught up and lost in all of our vices
In your pose as the dust settled around us

And the walls kept tumbling down
In the city that we love
Great clouds roll over the hills
Bringing darkness from above

Pompeii was that city that seemed to be suddenly buried and preserved by a volcanic eruption.  Today we are quick to recognize warning signs beneath our feet that give a little more time that we might not have another sudden Pompeii tragedy. And yet, when we are caught in all our own vices, we never really think the worst could come on us, and we ignore all the warning signs, and then we are sadly surprised when our world seems to explode or fall apart.  The song and tragedy of Pompeii are reminders to not count ourselves invincible or unsinkable--let us humble ourselves, look at ourselves correctly, seeking Grace, the Spirit's power, and sincere fellowship that we may escape the dangers around which we tend to build our lives.





Road Trip Playlist 2014 #15

Review of June 19...
Up early and back to the airport for a morning flight from Sacramento to Portland.  I was greeted by cooler air and  super friend to missions personnel and agencies, Jack Hansen.  Jack took me to meet Area Administrator David Shrout and Pastor Mike Mugford (whose brother Jeff is on staff at MMCC)--but when we arrived, we were invited into an area pastor's meeting that included a time of blessing for Pastor John Kuykendall who is retiring from pastoring the Lynchwood ChoG (one of our supporters).  Also in the room was John's son BJ Kuykendall who pastors the Hoodview congregation (another supporter).  So I was getting a head start meeting many of our area supporters within half hour of landing in Portland.  After a video tribute John, we went to lunch and had a prayer of blessing.  At lunch, I got to dialogue with Mike Mugford a bit as he is he chair for the Summer Celebration in which we will have a lot of participation in July.

From there, it was over to Donna Johnson's house--she's on the area Missions Commission, and the nurse at Warner Pacific College.  She will be hosting Grace and Alexis during summer celebration, and she was kind enough to arrange some doctors appointments for Keli and I while we are in the area.  These checkups are an important item on our to-do list, so it was great to have Donna's help yesterday in coordinating with the office the dates and details.

Then it was just getting to know Jack better.  Pray for his family: this week, his 39-year old son Adam did not return from a fishing trip to Alaska.  Upon investigation they found him hospitalized and has sense been relocated by Ned flight to Seattle.  They think he had a stroke, and they're still trying to determine the cause; he is doing well, and all tests are pointin in good directions, but he has a long way to go.  Jack and I will be cutting this visit short as he goes today to be with the family in Seattle.

Meanwhile, I will get a head start on visiting with Pastor Randy & Tamara Kerr in St Helens, so the road trip continues...

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Within a week, I will be able to see my kids and be back in Alabama - that's a fun thought.  I love my kids -- they're each unique, fun and crazy.  We like to play music loud and sing along, or make up our own weird lyrics to the same tunes while doing dishes, preparing for dinner, or when nothing serious is going on.  Paramore is a band that we sometimes sing along to, so today, maybe my kids will sing along with their song, "Ain't It Fun"...

(This video's creative & dramatic creator reminded me of my kids.)

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #14

Review of June 18...
Fun day with my great Sacramento hosts Wayne & Claudia.  Wayne took me on a brief downtown history tour including a stop at Sutter's Fort.  Afterwards, we had a great lunch at a Mongolian BBQ with Pastor Rhodes & Jolene.  

The congregation at Antelope Road Christian Fellowship were another great group of supporters with whom to share. Asking great questions, they were really engaged throughout the presentation.

While I received a good reception on the west coast, back east, Keli and the kids gave their first presentation at 12th Ave Church of God in Alabama.  According to Keli, the kids all did great and everyone appreciated the presentation.

Now it's time to turn in the rental--goodbye Dodge Charger, you served me well.  I'll have to explain later how I ended up in that instead of a smaller rental, but there's no time, got to run to the airport while this road trip takes flight...keep reading to find out why, & the song of the day...

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Today I bid farewell to California and fly to Portland, Oregon today for a bit of an extra trip to Oregon.  Most of our support comes from Oregon, and no one has been more helpful to us in the planning and details of this home assignment than Jack Hansen.  Jack has met wit us by Skype, exchanged dozens of emails, and been an active "middle man" in coordinating our schedule and desires with several churches in the area.  He not only did the legwork on renting a van during our Washington & Oregon weeks, he also raised the funds for it to get it reserved and waiting for us next month when we return.  I could go on and on--Jack's been a great help in many areas, so I'm looking forward to hanging out with him for a few days before sharing with 2 congregations this Sunday.

I really enjoyed the Pacific northwest a few years ago, and I'm looking forward to spending a lot of the summer there.  Though this brief trip is great, it will be even better when I return with the family in July.  Speaking of family, I'm inching closer to seeing them again :)

And, after two months of heat, I'm looking forward to the cooler temperatures--even if it is only a little cooler.  So today is full of positive events--it could be one of the best days of my life...which leads us to the band American Authors and their recent hit, "Best Day of My Life"...

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #13

Review of June 17...
I spent the whole day in a car trying to keep it pointed north driving from outside Los Angeles to Sacramento.  I took my time and I enjoyed the drive, thinking about the people & churches with whom I have been able to share since this road trip began. I would whisper little prayers along the way for different ones as they came to mind.  I ended at another great host family who fed me yummy lasagna & garlic bread--then we watched a little America's Got Talent -- apparently, my kids & Keli were catching up on the same in Alabama :)

I also had moments of singing, lip syncing, and doing motions to a lot of songs to keep me going--which I'm sure also provided comic relief to others on their drives along I-5 and hwy99, too.

And I had a lot of time to be thankful as I continued to watch the odometer climb; I'm well over 2,000 miles on this rental, and that is also an answer to many prayers for our safety during this summer.  There are still days to go before I consider the road trip portion of this summer over when I reunite with Keli on Monday--so keep checking back for the daily update, and even after that I will post pics and updates about the upcoming ChoG convention in OKC, as well as our scheduled visits during the summer.  Those future updates will just be be void of the song of the day; speaking of which...

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Of Monsters and Men is a unique band name, which is appropriate given their unique style.  Their first hit single is diverse, upbeat and fun...enjoy "Little Talks"...


Little Talks is the song of the day because of all the little talks we have been giving during this home assignment.  

Tonight, we have two "little talks": I will be at Antelope Road Chrisian Fellowship in Citrus Heights--where our fund-raising trail ended in December 2011.  And Keli and the kids begin their sharing with the 12th Ave ChoG in Arab, AL.  Many more little talks are coming throughout the summer--on the last road trip post, I'll post the remaining schedule for the summer so you can attempt to catch us in person...

Thank you again for your continued interest, prayers & support!

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #12

Review of June 16...
Well this road trip ran through Joshua Tree National Park yesterday; to be honest, I never thought the Joshua Tree was a real tree when I first heard of the U2 album.  And having seen them now, I think they look like something out of Tim Burton or Dr Seuss' imagination...


The further / higher you go in the park, the more you get surrounded in groves of these big yucca trees--it was very weird.  There are also many large rock formations throughout the park - I climbed on some and took a few minutes to sit & enjoy the silence and wind.  But, I stayed away from this one because I thought sooner or later that balance rock on top is gonna fall down!

It's a beautiful park - a peaceful place and a good opportunity to be reminded of the grandeur of this world and the awesome creative power of our God.  


But, it's back on the road again--making my way slowly back to Sacramento where I will share with the Antelope Road Christian Fellowship on Wednesday evening.  On the way, I may catch a little "fever" but I shouldn't "turn blue"...

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The band The Black Keys had been growing on me, and I thought I was passed it--then they released the album Turn Blue, and got me back into listening to them.  The title track, says, "I really don't think you know there could be hell below"--whatever the band was going for, I think a little reminder of the potential of negative consequences is helpful, especially in our fast-paced, act first think later culture.


Thanks for your continuing interest, thoughts & prayers.  Pray for Lebanon this week as the events in Iraq have begun to send a new wave of Iraqi refugees there on top of the massive Syrian refugee population.

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #11

Review of June 15...
It was great to be at MMCC yesterday in Scotsdale--it's a creative church that is not only using this creativity to impact their community, but they are actively planning to pass along that creativity to next generations.  Their children's camp this summer is "camp create" and will help kids to not only learn Bible stories but also how to create movies to portray their message and meaning.  MMCC does a great job with video already, creating a video to introduce me to the congregation, as well as a funny & touching Father's Day video (the former I will share at a later date, but here's the link to the latter: http://vimeo.com/m/98241860 ).  I got to share with two groups of the children's ministry during the day, as well as be interviewed during both services.  This led to great opportunities of connection with the members during the morning.

Then it was off to lunch with a group of new families to the church, and staying at yet another beautifully Scottsdale home--the views of the mountains across the desert have always been amazing to me. Very thankful for Gil & Dana opening their home to me.

But now it's time to hit the road--so, what's next on the playlist?  Read on...

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It's time to reveal the playlist picture source: it's Joshua Tree National Park, named for the unique trees that populate the regional desert in southern California.  I've never been to Joshua Tree, and after another week on the road, I thought I would stop in and take a personal day for rest, prayer, and reflection.

And if you're stopping at Joshua Tree, and building a playlist, you have to include a song from the 1987 iconic album Joshua Tree by U2 - it gave us such hits as "With or Without You," and "Where the Streets Have No Name," but I'm going with "I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" (though this video version is from the Rattle and Hum album that featured a Gospel Choir...)


The album is supposed to reveal the band's "love hate" relationship to the United States, as some have said -- the lead singer/activist Bono was interviewed saying that he had come out of the poverty and deserts of Africa and into the States seeing a different type of poverty and plaguing desert.  The image of a desert was adopted for the creation of the album.  

This theme and place may be appropriate after weeks away from Cairo and the Sahara climate--we may be experiencing a bit of reverse culture shock in different ways as we become re-immersed into America, perhaps even our own "love hate" moments.  It's been a busy week+ and I need the time to just "be still" before God.

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #10

Review of June 14...
The H4L meetings came to a productive end, and then it was off to focus on meeting Michael Fay who is the missions pastor with McDowell Mtn Community Church (MMCC).  But more than Michael, I had the opportunity to have dinner with Michael's family, Pastor Matt Anderson's family, & worship pastor Joe Webb and one of his sons.

It was a great evening of sharing together while their kids played together.  This is just part if a great staff and it was really wonderful to see their kids laughing and playing together.  We are thankful for all our partners and the pastors with whom we get to talk and share.

I also got a little glimpse of World Cup action--living internationally now, and having friends in many of these countries represented, I can just feel the excitement and tension for each country.  What an event!  The Three Worlds family had to watch Italy and England battle in a great match--with Italy prevailing.

So now it's Sunday.  I have awakened to a beautiful morning in Scotsdale, Arizona.  I'm sitting outside sipping a coffee as various birds chirp in the distance.  I'm alone this morning as I take in the beauty of the environment of this amazing home--but today's song reminds me that I am never alone...

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Another Sunday and another favorite worship song from the past few years, and it's another one from Matt Redman, "Never Once."



Today is Father's Day - a fact that was lost on me for all these months of planning and scheduling this part of the trip.  We don't have Father's Day in Egypt, and Mother's Day is celebrated at a different time of the year.  It's a little strange to be celebrating Father's Day away from my fathers and children, but I'm glad that Keli will be able to be with her siblings and dad today.

As I listen to this song, I love the stressing of God's faithfulness and the reflection of how God walks with us, just as he has walked with us.  It may seem like He is distant or silent, but one day we'll have a better sense of how He was with us all the while.  This morning, without another person around, I'm able to say thanks to the Heavenly Father and take some time with Him.

How have you experienced the faithfulness of God?


Road Trip Playlist 2014 #9

Review of June 13...
Friday the 13th was not too scary here in Arizona.  Long commutes are the theme if this stay here while attending the Heart for Lebanon board meetings, but it's been a blessing to commute and connect with Pastor Jim Davey.

The H4L meetings have been productive and are setting the stage for greater things out of this amazing ministry.  Several churches could benefit from the type of discussions we have to preparing for even greater effectiveness of ministry; this is a sharp group with whom to serve and collaborate.  I always learn a lot and get fired up in the process.

We did take a break just to laugh and be together, getting out for a desert jeep excursion and dinner. Fun, memorable time...


Well my meetings with H4L end today, and then I begin to shift gears to think about McDowell Mountain Community Church and my time with them this Sunday.  Before I change locations in Phoenix, here's the song of the day...

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Another day of just needing a fun song to bounce out of the seriousness of 3 days of Board meetings :)

Vance Joy is another artist that I do not know that well, but his song "Riptide" is simple, fun and catchy - but what I love best about this is that the album is called, "God loves you when you're dancing" :)


One of my favorite movie scenes is from the sequel "Evan Almighty" in which Morgan Freeman again plays the role of God (see "Bruce Almighty" for his first portrayal), and the role of "Evan" is played by comic actor Steve Carell.  At the end of the movie, Evan is having a hindsight "a-ha" moment with God, coming to grips with His humor and wisdom--then God encourages Evan to dance, and when Evan does, God doesn't just watch, but He dances with Evan.  I love that thought of God dancing beside us--it makes me teary and smile all at the same time.

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #8

Review of June 12...
This will be brief because there was not much activity yesterday except driving across the desert.  I arrived at North Hills Church of God mid-afternoon to meet up with my generous host, Pastor Jim Davey, who also serves on the Heart for Lebanon board.  I knew Jim from his days of leading the national youth ministry.  I asked if I could stay with him rather than get a hotel.  I didn't realize that the H4L meetings were not necessarily in Phoenix, but south of the city in Chandler.  The distance from Jim in North Phoenix is about an hour drive!  Oh well, this gives us a lot of time to catch up and learn more about each other's ministries.  I've always appreciated Jim's heart for people and it is great to hear about North Hills because Keli and I spent a summer serving this congregation as interns back in 1994.

We had a dinner with the board last night, and it was good to get some of the initial reports discussed, which were full of great news on a lot of good work done by H4L.  There is much to discuss today, but first, it's time for the playlist...

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Working with Heart for Lebanon can be tough because you are constantly faced with poverty, sadness, brokenness, and increasing need with diminishing resources.  It's so difficult to process for many how severe the Syrian refugee crisis has become, especially in Lebanon; founder Camille Melki and COO Tom Atema put some points together that help put it in context:

- every 2.5 seconds another Syruan crosses the border into Lebanon

- the concentration of refugees in Lebanon is the greatest concentration of refugees anywhere in the world

- one out of every four persons in Lebanon is a Syrian refugee

- there has begun a new wave of Iraqi refugees due to recent events there

And this is just some of what could be written.

It can be overwhelming.  But, Someday, we are going to see an end to this; someday, we will see an end to these earthly issues and be welcomed into heavenly grandeur where every tear will be wiped away.

Someday.  Until then, get up each day, and make today better around you--through your smile, your kindness, your patience, your love, make today the someday someone has been hoping for...

Rob Thomas' hit song, "Someday"...

Road Trip Playlist 2014 #7

Review of June 11...
What a fun day with Pastor Brent checking out some of the Los Angeles sights along the Pacific coast--the sightseeing part was nice but what made the day fantastic was just taking the time to connect with a pastor whose ministry resonates with so much of our past ministry.  Sharing witan Culver City Church of God was a blessing too--we thought they may be eager to get out of there after 45 min, but they were so curious and asked such good questions that everyone stayed engaged for more than twice that.

Well, while I was loving the Los Angeles visit, my pore wife & kids were stuck trying to get home to Alabama.  The Air France flight into Atlanta was delayed, causing them to miss their connection, and then they couldn't get worked into a flight until this morning.  I still haven't gotten to talk to them and I hope they were able to get some rest (and some airline perks) after the long ordeal.

And now, I woke up at 5 am and hit the road early to escape the LA traffic and to get me going on this long trip to Phoenix.  LA was so love and cool, but now I'm headed back to the desert and heat.  Time to turn on the playlist and see what song represents and inspires the day...

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Working with teens and young adults for the last 20 years, we have been privileged to see some amazing talents.  Some incorrectly think that the "greats" have experience on their side--but that's not necessarily true.  Sometimes, there is amazing talent, wisdom, skill, and expertise in the younger generations just waiting for an opportunity to amaze.  I don't know much about today's artist except that when the raspy feminine voice of Lorde hit the airwaves, no one anticipated it was coming from a 17-year old.  

In her song, "Team," she has a line that says, "I'm kind of over gettin told to throw my hands up in the air, so there..."  That's a throwback reference to my generation's hip-hop-club-scenes where a DJ/MC would say something like, "Throw your hands in the air and wave 'em like you just don't care" (ala Outkast among others).  


Is Lorde stating through this lyric that at 17 she's outgrown the "party and rave like you just don't care" mentality?

I don't know--but if she was, it wouldn't be that surprising.  We have seen and continue to see young people who are living selflessly, not just hoping to make the world a better place one day, they've begun to create a better world now.  Fund-raising, inventing, raising awareness--they are taking a stand against injustice, inequality, poverty, lack of resources, waste, environmental issues, human trafficking, and more--they are leading beyond their years.

And they have a greater "team" mentality than we had in previous generations.  They're not tackling the worlds problems from religious roots, national patriotism, or any other small ideal--they're finding ways to spread the message and partnering across borders, across languages, across cultures--they're tackling the world's problems as world citizens.

Today, I'm driving into Phoenix to join Heart for Lebanon Board Members for a few days of holding this incredible ministry accountable and to offer wisdom where requested.  Founder and CEO Camille Melki has an amazing organization at the front of the Syrian refugee crisis in the country that has the highest refugee ratio on the planet; networking and partnering with churches and other aid organizations, they are living out their vision of being the compassionate heart of Jesus to each one they serve.  It's great to walk alongside of each of their young leaders, and their more experienced counterparts, to making their part of the world a better place.